tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36492684.post767581059735339103..comments2023-10-30T02:11:26.204-07:00Comments on Smut and the Dirty Girl: Dealing with the aftermath (not an erotic fiction post, this non-fiction)Dirty Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01087871772068746428noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36492684.post-47416512581505396042014-05-15T19:12:41.883-07:002014-05-15T19:12:41.883-07:00Thank you for the Twitter mention. You are right, ...Thank you for the Twitter mention. You are right, we really have been thinking along similar lines lately. After I finished writing the Ariel Castro post I spent the month trying to figure out <a href="http://abjectsub.com/is-abject-submission-bad-for-me/" rel="nofollow">whether my emotional masochism is self-destructive</a>. I finally concluded that I need a balanced diet of porn/fantasies or aftercare to feel good about my kink, but I'm not sure everyone will reach the same conclusion.Yingtaihttp://abjectsub.comnoreply@blogger.com